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Unconditional Love

The other day, I was watching a video done by an amazing spiritual teacher, leader and educator; Ra James. She was talking about the universe, and what the overall plan is for the universe. As she was talking about all these amazing energies that are coming our way at the end of 2019, I couldn't help but reminisce about this past decade, and what patterns, energies and realizations I have come upon.

The overall end goal for every soul in this universe- is unconditional love. So what does this really mean, why are we fighting this, and how does this all play into the main ascension that is going on in our current life spans?

Unconditional love is just that. It is love, without expectations, conditions, rules or boundaries. This level of love is delivered from evil, and elevates our souls to a whole new level of understanding and peace. Love at this level is as close to divine energy that you can reach- and almost every religion talks about unconditional love.

So why do we struggle so hard with possessing unconditional love?

What is our soul's purpose?

Love is our entire souls purpose. When we are in true spiritual balance, we can feel the love entering our body from our divine energies, our God or Creator.

When we are in this level of balance, we are capable of loving ourselves, others and our lives. Unconditional love is when we make the conscience decision to spread our love into the world around us, without expectations of others being receptive to it, a return or benefit of ourselves or even love in return.

Unconditional love is not requiring anything in return, any guarantee or any expectation. When we exist in this field, we love everyone regardless of their political views, sexual expression, race, gender, ethnicity and more importantly- we love people who hate us.

For my readers who are a little more versed on religious readings, scriptures or teachings- you will notice this sounds an awful lot like all religions, doesn't it? Love truly is the one thing that knows no boundaries, so why are we PLACING those boundaries upon ourselves?

Our Ego and Unconditional Love

When we are denying ourselves unconditional love, we are denying ourselves love- for ourselves, for others, for our families or spouses. This happens when we chose to not share love with those around us therefore we ourselves become less receptive of love. Soon this becomes a loveless cycle.

Removing love from our souls, and by not carrying unconditional love within us, we slowly begin to kill our spiritual selves. Soon we are angry all the time, bored, depressed, self conscience, unsteady in our lives, lost and scared.

When we aren't loving unconditionally, that is where the ugly green jealous monster comes out.  If you love unconditionally, you don't get upset when you disagree with someone. You don't bully them, tear them down or otherwise attack them. When you carry this love with you, you feel confident in everything you are, and do, and enjoy sharing this with those around you. And in doing so, expect nothing in return.

Unconditional love is for everyone in this world. Now this is where people get upset- because we have people who have done us wrong, hurt us, or we otherwise hate. We don't want to love them. This is where our ego takes over, and we see an imbalance in our crown chakra.

The biggest threat to our souls, our lives and our world, is our ego. The ego we possess has the power to propel us into the next level of consciousness and ascension, or to drag us down into the ultimate feeling of discontentment, defeat and ultimately; depression.

Balancing the chakras

What are the three main ways we can welcome unconditional love into our lives?

  1. Shadow work
  2. Balancing and Activating Chakras
  3. Healing the soul

When we look at unconditional love- we look at how we ARE or AREN'T loving others and ourselves.

If you are talking poorly of someone else, your chakra's aren't in balance honey. When your commenting on random people's social media calling them "drama queen" "bitch" and "loser" your chakra's aren't in balance.

When we are out of balance in our chakras- in anyway, we are out of balance with unconditional love. So how do we synchronize ourselves into this unconditional love?

We work with the aspects of ourselves that come forward that we don't like. We deal with our little green monster of jealousy, and we move forward. We deal with our insecurities, and we move forward. When we do our shadow work, heal our shadows and our souls- we are ultimately balancing our chakras.

Do our chakra's have to be in perfect balance to achieve unconditional love? Absolutely not! We are not perfect, nobody is. But being mindful of our shadows, our chakras and the love we are sharing in the world, we can help live a better spiritual life.

Loving Our Enemies

This is possibly the hardest thing about unconditional love. But it is the most important. We can't continuously live our lives full of hate, fear, mistrust or angst. It's important that we find it in our hearts, to spread love and forgiveness to everyone in our lives. Forgive those who trespass against us, and release their hold on our souls.

It is our duty to bring love into this world, and there are going to be people out there that are going to try and take that from you. There are going to be people who want to extinguish your divine flame, and drag you into the darkness.

But it is our duty to spread the light, spread the love and lift our enemies up.  What they do after that, is on them. All you can do is continue to spread the love to everyone in this universe.

 

Cutting Negative Energy Out of Your life. 

How do we cut negative energy from your life, if we are supposed to unconditionally love? 

By setting boundaries!! You can set these boundaries and still send love their way by refusing to talk poorly of them, send positive energy and try and help them on their way.  If that boundary means that you no longer talk to them, that is fine! Healthy even! But that doesn't mean you need to rip them down, belittle them or otherwise attack them. You pray for them. You ask for spirit to help them through this rough time, help them navigate this journey and to bring them through this dark time to elevate their consciousness and energy.

I'm only going to say this one time.

Just because someone has been a part of your life for a very long time, does not mean they are entitled to always be a part of your life.

You are not obligated for your entire life to tolerate negative relationships, negative love and negative energy. Stand up for yourself, cut the tie and share your love with them.

 

Unconditional Love

This entire universe is about unconditional love. Love is the most sacred energy we can possess in this world, and it will always overcome. When we welcome this love into our lives in a genuine and heartfelt place, we can feel the most amazing feelings of awakenings. When we are projecting unconditional love into the universe, we will see our manifestations coming to us, abundance, prosperity and positive energy.

If you only do one thing for someone else today- make it be something that comes from a place of unconditional love.

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Victoria Dellapaolera
Victoria is a Christian minister practicing spiritual healing and development in Williston, North Dakota. Victoria has worked with horses her entire life, and has learned many of her healing techniques from the horses. She graduated from West Virginia University in 2020 Magna Cum Laude with a bachelors degree in Human Services and Sports and Exercise Psychology; gaining her associates degree in Farm and Ranch Management and Equitation from Dawson Community College in Glendive, Montana in 2012.. Victoria received her shamanic rites in 2018, after spending the majority of her life with the spirit of the horse learning the basics of communication, healing, and intuition.
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