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This means not all statements made in this reading may resonate with you. If you truly do not feel like a message resonates with you, simply disregard. The message was not intended for you if it doesn't resonate.


The month of July is going to bring a sudden upheaval in the first week of the month. Something in your life will be removed, but only because something better is coming. You need room to grow, so removing this part of your life will give you the room you need to grow as needed.

Think of it this way, you can't build something new, without tearing down the old stuff that is in the way.

The fall out form this "tear down" is going to make you feel frustrated and will present obstacles and set backs. Be sure to keep yourself in a positive frame of mind, because you are going to be tempted to lose hope in the situation.

You are going to be given an opportunity towards the middle of the month to share either knowledge, donate to a charity or in some way give back. This is a great opportunity for you to give back to the universe, and might just bring you abundance and fulfillment.

You need to be mindful of how you are spending your time. You will quickly become burnt out in the month of July, and will want to quit following your passion This burn out will leave you uninspired- look into ways you can delegate and use all your resources to keep you from this emotional burn out.

Examples of this:

  • Hiring a cleaning service
  • Paying a neighbor kid to mow your lawn
  • Taking time off work and letting someone else pull their weight for a while
  • Outsourcing parts of your business to take the work load off of you
  • Trusting your team to assist you with your tasks
  • Outlining responsibilities with your spouse, significant other or children so you aren't the only one doing the chores

This burn out is going to really mess with you, so take precautions to keep the burn out from happening, and working to keep the fire and the passion alive within you in this month. You're going to have to work at this, because your emotions are going to want to take over until the 21st of the month- so try and keep this in mind when you are overwhelmed..


July is going to be an emotional roller coaster. You are going to have this feeling of "don't give up at any costs" but that isn't how life is meant to be. You are feeling this sense of loss or self pity, almost like you are focused on what you lost, instead of what you still have and if you keep driving through this it will just all go away. Don't be so focused on what you lost, that you lose what you still have in the mean time.

This energy is going to create this dynamic where you are creating conflict where there isn't any, just to fuss about it. Stop picking fights, and you will stop having fights! Find healthy ways for you to defuse yourself before you take it out on your partner.

You are fighting with the person who is giving you security, and if you don't knock it off and get a rein on your emotions, you are going to really feel the lack of security and resources. Don't let the emotions of this month get the best of you.

Find ways to let the emotions flow from you, without being hurtful or overly sensitive. Make sure you are taking time to take care of yourself and keep the burnout and stress from affecting your relationships.

If you are single, make sure you aren't being- for lack of better words- off putting or bitchy. You are going to be pushing people away or resistant to even seeing people are around you because of your attitude. Focus on ways to ground your emotions so they aren't ruling you- that you are ruling them. Cancer season is a bitch- and she is here until July 21st, so you better get a rein on these emotions asap.



I'm not going to lie, this month is going to be an emotional wreck- but it is also going to give you a good time to truly DEAL with these emotions.

You need to remember to stay in touch with YOU. Your past, future and present. Don't get caught up in the past, you don't live there. Deal with what you need to deal with, then let it go and remember to see the joy in the NOW.  Remove the illusions you have on the situations, obstacles and setbacks you have now, so you can see them for what they really are. Remember to feel your emotions, because they are valid- but don't allow them to consume you and control you. Communicate your feelings in a respectful way. You are on the brink of a transformation, allow it to happen.

Why is July going to be so emotional, destructive and hard?
Let's dive into July's astrology..

Well. Cancer is ruled by the Moon. The moon controls the water #Science and water represents emotions....

Cancer is from June 21-July 22nd and is a VERY emotional sign (Ask this Cancer how she knows) Cancer is also one of the most intuitive signs 😉

Solar Eclipse over the New Moon in Cancer

To add to this flood of emotions, we are having a solar eclipse on July 2nd- which means all of our repressed emotions are going to come roaring out. Basically, the moon is just forcing us to see her, feel allll her emotions and acknowledge she is here, even when our emotions are buried in the shadows. (New moons are covered in shadow, and are black in the night sky)

Our subconscious emotions are going to come out, such as relationships where we feel emotionally un-loved- and you out of the blue voice your opinion on it (Not really understanding where these emotions are coming from)

During the first week of the month- stay in the present and feel what is surfacing. Stay in control of these emotions and work through them logically and calmly. Take responsibility for your feelings, and understand that they ARE justified, but how you react to them is how they will be perceived by others. Remember emotions aren't always bad- you may be flooded with emotions of joy, happiness just as much as emotions of hurt, pain and disappointment.

This is going to be a good time to spend reminiscing with friends over past memories, and more importantly making some good new memories (Holla 4th of July!!). If you are feeling the desire to reach out to an old ex- do so. Sometimes we are the ex's that just pop back into each others lives...


The planet MERCURY goes Retrgrograde July 7th-31st

Mercury goes retrograde on July 7th, which is going to influence our ability to communicate.  You might just blurt out your feelings without thinking, instantly regretting your words- or some other method of communication such as emails, texts, phone calls or mail might malfunction, get lost or just misunderstood. With the emotions running strong during Cancer already, the Mercury Retrograde will be an extra sensitive time for communicating with our partners, friends and family.  On July 8th, the asteroid Chiron also goes retrograde, which will help us heal old wounds.

As I wrote out this monthly message- I missed my note about Mercury going into retrograde, and found it while verifying my notes.. Well played Mercury, well played.


Full Moon in Capricorn on July 16th

What is the "Moon in Capricorn" This is a time, when lunar sky path is crossing the tenth sector of the zodiac - between ∠270°-300°, where is located the constellation of Capricorn.

Full Moon in Capricorn may happen only in the end of June and in the beginning of July, when the Sun moves in Cancer, the zodiac sector opposite to Capricorn. Capricorn is opposite of Cancer on the Zodiac wheel- so it is a little bit of opposite forces butting heads.

The Full Moon in Capricorn tells us to take RESPONSIBILITY for our emotions.

Lunar Eclipse in Capricorn, July 16th

A lunar eclipse during the full moon just heightens the full moon energy, which means that while your emotions are going to be heightened,  you are also going to be able to see a crystal clear pattern and make sound calls regarding your emotions and WHAT is causing those emotions to come to light.

Use this time to address issues that are triggering you, and move forward from them. This lunar eclipse is close to the planet of Pluto- which means it is going to be a very intense lunar eclipse.  This means the universe is going to expose dark secrets, bad behaviors and those "nit picky" things are going to cause fusses and feuds.  Conflict, transformations and addressing some buried emotional and psychological issues are all going to happen in the month of July- especially around the 16th. But don't forget, Chiron in Retrograde will help you HEAL from these triggers!! This is a very powerful time.


I know this was a lot of information for us here today- but I can't help that July is going to be an emotional month. Here's to making the best of our emotions!

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Victoria Dellapaolera
Victoria is a Christian minister practicing spiritual healing and development in Williston, North Dakota. Victoria has worked with horses her entire life, and has learned many of her healing techniques from the horses. She graduated from West Virginia University in 2020 Magna Cum Laude with a bachelors degree in Human Services and Sports and Exercise Psychology; gaining her associates degree in Farm and Ranch Management and Equitation from Dawson Community College in Glendive, Montana in 2012.. Victoria received her shamanic rites in 2018, after spending the majority of her life with the spirit of the horse learning the basics of communication, healing, and intuition.
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